Perfection is not just about control. It’s also about letting go. Surprise yourself so you can surprise the audience.
The first two dances, however, brought a return of distress; they were dances of mortification. Mr. Collins, awkward and solemn, apologising instead of attending, and often moving wrong without being aware of it, gave her all the shame and misery which a disagreeable partner for a couple of dances can give. The moment of her release from him was ecstasy.
Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice
Half of the time they were trying to get me just to close my mouth while I was dancing because it’s like you’re concentrating so hard on what you are doing that like your tongue is sticking out and your mouth open.